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In Loving Memory of My Dear Mother,
In Loving Memory of My Dear Mother,
By Augustine Osayande
On the serene morning of July 30th, 1988, as the sun cast its gentle rays upon the Earth, a tight-knit family basked in the tranquil serenity. Little did they know, a profound metamorphosis awaited, poised to reshape their existence. Within this affectionate family, I, the youngest among them, held a deep longing, yearning for a profound bond with my cherished mother. Remarkably, destiny appeared to sense this desire, and an extraordinary synchronicity enveloped us, setting the stage for a poignant and intimate meal that was about to unfold.
With anticipation in the air, the family gathered eagerly around the dining table in the quaint village of Oheze-Naka, nestled within the Orhionmwon Local Government Area of Edo State. Each member recognized the significance of this occasion, cherishing the opportunity to share a meal with their cherished matriarch. Laughter, tender conversations, and the melodious clinking of utensils created a symphony of familial love, interwoven with the aroma of the food that nourished not only their bodies but also their souls.
In that fleeting moment of unity, the bonds within the family grew stronger, etching memories that would forever resonate within their collective consciousness. They reveled in the simple joys of life—conversations filled with anecdotes, shared dreams, and mutual affection. Little did they know that this seemingly ordinary meal would become an indelible marker, standing as the final chapter of their shared culinary experiences.
However, as the sun ascended toward its zenith, casting elongated shadows in its wake, an unforeseen calamity shattered the tranquility that had enveloped their lives. The distant sound of urgency, carried by the wind, reached the ears of the youngest family member. It was the frantic shouts of their older brother, an unsettling chorus of desperation, urging them to hasten back home.
With a racing heart, the youngest rushed towards the source of the commotion, a cloud of foreboding descending upon them, casting darkness upon their world. Unbeknownst to them, the weight of tragedy hung heavily in the air. A sense of impending sorrow clung to their every step, growing more burdensome with each passing second. Their reality was about to be irreversibly shattered.
Upon arriving at their family abode, their brother’s grief-stricken and disbelieving face conveyed volumes before any words were spoken. The youngest listened, trembling, as the devastating news unfolded. Their beloved mother, Mrs. Ona Osayande, the beacon of warmth and love, had departed from this world, leaving behind an agonizing void that could never be filled.
The realization crashed upon them like an overwhelming tidal wave, stripping away the innocence and joy they had embraced just hours earlier. A profound sense of loss, anguish, and disbelief gripped their heart, leaving them numb, unable to comprehend the cruel twist of fate that had so abruptly snatched their mother from their lives.
Today, as I reflect on the passing of 35 years since you departed this earthly realm, emotions overwhelm me. Though the pain of losing you still lingers, I find solace in the countless beautiful memories we shared together. You were not merely a mother to me; you were my guiding light, my source of strength, and my best friend. Your unwavering love and support nurtured me, shaping the person I have become.
From the earliest moments of my life, you embraced the role of a loving mother with open arms, and your dedication knew no bounds. Your wise words echoed in my mind during times of struggle, providing me with the courage to persevere. Your gentle touch reassured me in moments of doubt, reminding me that I was never alone.
Mum, your selflessness and compassion were unparalleled. You devoted your life to caring for others, even those unrelated to you, showering us all with warmth and affection. Your love extended beyond the boundaries of our immediate family, reaching out to those in need and brightening their lives with your kind heart. You taught me the value of kindness, empathy, and generosity, traits that I strive to embody every day. Your acts of love were not confined to our home; you touched the lives of many, leaving a lasting impression on everyone fortunate enough to know you.
As the years have passed, I have come to appreciate the depth of your character even more. You faced adversity with grace, never allowing it to diminish the inner light that shone so brightly within you. Your resilience in the face of challenges serves as a constant reminder to persevere and never lose hope. Your unwavering faith in the goodness of the world inspired me to see beyond difficulties and embrace life with optimism.
Although I wish I could have shared more of my life with you, I take comfort in knowing that you continue to live on in my heart. Your love and spirit remain a guiding force, illuminating my path and reminding me of the importance of cherishing every moment. The lessons you taught me are etched into my very being, shaping my decisions and actions. Your memory fuels my determination to live a life that honors the values you instilled in me.
Today, I honor you, dear mother, by celebrating your life and the profound impact you had on me and those around you. Your memory will forever be etched in my soul, and I will strive to make you proud every day. As I navigate life’s challenges, I find strength in knowing that you are watching over me, guiding me from above. Your unconditional love continues to be a guiding light, comforting me in moments of darkness and encouraging me to reach for the stars.
Years have passed, and as the youngest child, I carry the weight of that fateful day forever marked by the fleeting happiness of our last meal together, mother. Through the depths of sorrow, I have emerged with a profound understanding of the fragility of life, holding tightly to the memories and lessons imparted by our dear mother. Though physically absent, her spirit will forever guide and inspire us, reminding us to embrace each passing moment.
Thank you, dear mother, for everything you were and still are to me. Though the years may continue to pass, the love we shared will endure for eternity. As I carry your legacy forward, I promise to pass on the love, compassion, and wisdom you bestowed upon me. Your spirit lives on in me, and as I embark on the journey of life, I am forever grateful to have had you as my mother. Until we meet again, may you rest in eternal peace, knowing that you are loved beyond measure.
***Augustine Osayande contributed this article through austinelande@yahoo.com
In Loving Memory of My Dear Mother
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Zulum Greets Muslim Ummah on Eid-El-Fitr
Zulum Greets Muslim Ummah on Eid-El-Fitr
…Re-commits to ending insecurity
By: Our Reporter
Borno State Governor, Professor Babagana Umara Zulum, has conveyed his heartfelt congratulations to the Muslim Ummah in the state on the occasion of Eid-El-Fitr marking the successful completion of the month-long Ramadan fast.
Ramadan offered the opportunity for the Muslim faithful to renew their faith, boost spiritual depth, charitable giving and other acts or worship.
In a statement by his spokesperson, Dauda Iliya, Governor Zulum urged the people of the state to imbibe and sustain the lessons learned during the period to recharge their spiritual beings towards rebuilding a secure, peaceful and prosperous Borno society.
He described this year’s Ramadan as unique, especially with unprecedented charity reach outs to the indigent population by his administration. He noted with deep satisfaction and total gratitude to Allah that his administration has reached over 300,000 vulnerable persons with food and other essential items across the 27 local government areas
Although the state has recorded series of attacks, which have claimed the lives of some military men and civilians, the Governor reiterated his resolve to tackling the security situation head-on.
He saluted the courage, resilience and commitment of the people to all initiatives aimed at deepening security and peace building among the various components of the society fragmented by the Boko Haram insurgency over the years.
Governor Zulum expressed profound grief over the resurgence of terror attacks across parts of the state, especially the triple suicide bombings of Monday, March 9, in Maiduguri, which claimed the lives of 28 persons and injured over 100 others.
He, consequently, expressed his heartfelt gratitude to President Bola Tinubu for sending the Vice President, Senator Kashim Shettima to condole with the people of Borno over the tragic incident and also deploying the Service Chiefs with a charge to review and deploy strategies towards ending the insurgency.
Zulum lauded the military for the ongoing offensive operations in the Sambisa Forest, stressing similar coordinated operations in Mandara mountain, Lake Chad area and other hideouts of the insurgents.
He expressed his unbreakable promise to double down in supporting the security agencies and volunteer forces in the prosecution of the counter insurgency and counter terrorism operations.
Governor Zulum recalled that the people of Borno have gone through harrowing situations over the last 15 years due to the Boko Haram insurgency. He, however, urged them to sustain the impressive resilience to the impacts of terror, which they have built over the years.
With the renewal of terror attacks, especially suicide bombings, Zulum strongly urged the people to uphold their decades-old personal and communal initiatives for their safety and protection in attack situations, as the security agencies deploy new and stronger strategies at plugging all loopholes the terrorists seize to carry out their cowardly attacks on communities.
The governor expressed optimism that the security agencies are, more than ever before, crafting and deploying the most-successful strategies at combating the terrorists towards ending the insurgency.
While strongly advising the public to heed the warnings by security agencies to steer clear of crowded locations unguarded by security agents, and be mindful of suspicious persons, Zulum assured the residents of the state that the Eid-El-Fitr praying grounds will be heavily secured for the Muslim faithful to observe their yearly sacred ritual without any fear of attack.
He wished the Muslim Ummah Happy Eid-El-Fitr celebration.
Zulum Greets Muslim Ummah on Eid-El-Fitr
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NUJ FCT Chair Grace Ike Inducted into NIPR, Vows Ethical Leadership in Public Communication
NUJ FCT Chair Grace Ike Inducted into NIPR, Vows Ethical Leadership in Public Communication
By: Michael Mike
The Chairman of the Nigeria Union of Journalists (NUJ), Federal Capital Territory (FCT) Council, Grace Ike, has been formally inducted into the Nigerian Institute of Public Relations (NIPR), a development she described as a defining step in her professional journey bridging journalism and strategic communication.
Speaking shortly after the induction ceremony in Abuja, Ike said the recognition represents both a personal milestone and an opportunity to expand her commitment to responsible and impactful communication.
According to her, the new role creates a strong link between her longstanding career in journalism and the evolving field of public relations.
“This moment marks not just a personal milestone, but a bridge between my roots in journalism and my forward march into the dynamic world of public relations,” she said.
With more than two decades of experience in the media industry, Ike has remained a vocal advocate for press freedom and journalists’ welfare. As NUJ FCT Council chairman, she has led several initiatives aimed at strengthening ethical standards within the profession while promoting the rights and safety of media practitioners.
Reflecting on her career trajectory, she underscored the importance of communication in shaping societies and driving national development.
“These experiences have taught me that communication is the lifeblood of society, building trust, shaping narratives, and driving change,” she noted.
The NUJ leader said her induction into NIPR would further strengthen her dedication to ethical communication practices across both journalism and public relations, especially at a time when misinformation and the fast-changing digital media landscape continue to challenge the credibility of information.
“As I join the NIPR, I bring this journalistic rigour to public relations — a commitment to ethical storytelling, strategic engagement, and amplifying voices, especially those of women in leadership and media,” she added.
She emphasised that modern public relations goes beyond image management to include reputation building, perception shaping, crisis communication, and fostering meaningful relationships between institutions and the public.
“In an era of misinformation, PR professionals must lead with integrity, fostering dialogue that unites rather than divides,” Ike said.
She also pledged to uphold the professional standards and charter of the institute, while supporting mentorship and professional growth for emerging practitioners in the communication sector.
“Together, let us redefine public relations as a force for good — transparent, inclusive, and transformative,” she stated.
Ike further highlighted the responsibility of communication professionals in safeguarding the country’s global image.
“As custodians of national integrity, we must do all we can to protect and project the image of Nigeria positively,” she said.
Other notable inductees at the ceremony included former President of the Nigeria Association of Women Journalists, Evelyn Onyilo; the Chief Press Secretary to the Speaker of the House of Representatives, Leke Bayewu; and Ikenna Egwuatu, among others.
The event attracted communication professionals, media stakeholders, and industry leaders, underscoring the growing collaboration between journalism and public relations in promoting transparency, responsible communication, and national development.
NUJ FCT Chair Grace Ike Inducted into NIPR, Vows Ethical Leadership in Public Communication
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Zulum Reassures Borno Residents as Insecurity Resurges, Vows Decisive Action Against Insurgents
Zulum Reassures Borno Residents as Insecurity Resurges, Vows Decisive Action Against Insurgents
By: Michael Mike
Governor of Borno State, Babagana Umara Zulum, has reassured residents that authorities remain firmly in control despite a recent resurgence of insecurity in parts of the state, pledging a robust response to defeat insurgent elements attempting to destabilize communities.
In a statewide broadcast on Thursday, the governor acknowledged growing concerns following renewed attacks in some areas but insisted that the security situation remains manageable.
Zulum said the recent spike in attacks was largely a result of intensified military offensives that have dislodged insurgents from their hideouts, forcing them to disperse and attempt infiltration into local communities.
According to him, security agencies are already implementing coordinated strategies to counter the renewed threats and ensure that the insurgents do not regain a foothold in the state.
“The overall security environment, while tested, remains under control, and we are doing everything possible to protect lives and property,” he said.
The governor noted that although significant progress had been made over the past seven years in restoring stability and rebuilding communities affected by the insurgency, authorities have always remained aware that the threat was not entirely over.
Zulum stressed that the fight against insurgency requires collective responsibility, urging residents to strengthen cooperation with security agencies by providing timely intelligence and reporting suspicious activities.
He warned individuals who aid insurgents through information sharing, shelter, or logistics that the government would no longer tolerate such actions.
“Those who collaborate with these criminals are enemies of the state and will face the full weight of the law,” he said.
The governor commended the Nigerian Armed Forces and other security agencies for their sacrifices and dedication in defending the state, while also paying tribute to soldiers and civilian volunteers who have lost their lives in the ongoing conflict.
He also expressed appreciation to President Bola Ahmed Tinubu for approving funding to support operations of the Multinational Joint Task Force and other military campaigns against insurgents across the country.
Zulum further thanked Vice President Kashim Shettima for representing the president during a sympathy visit to the state following recent security incidents.
The governor called on political actors in the state to avoid exploiting the security situation for political advantage, particularly as the political season approaches.
He urged aspirants and their supporters to prioritise peace and stability over personal ambitions, warning that political divisions could undermine the fragile gains made in restoring security.
“As we look to the future and choose a new leader for our state, let us pray for a worthy successor,” he said.
Zulum also appealed to residents to remain vigilant during the final days of Ramadan and the upcoming Eid celebrations, advising citizens to observe their prayers within their communities and promptly report suspicious movements to security authorities.
He reaffirmed his administration’s commitment to preventing insurgents from regaining control of the state.
“Borno shall not fall into the hands of insurgents,” he declared.
Zulum Reassures Borno Residents as Insecurity Resurges, Vows Decisive Action Against Insurgents
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