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In Loving Memory of My Dear Mother,

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In Loving Memory of My Dear Mother,

By Augustine Osayande

On the serene morning of July 30th, 1988, as the sun cast its gentle rays upon the Earth, a tight-knit family basked in the tranquil serenity. Little did they know, a profound metamorphosis awaited, poised to reshape their existence. Within this affectionate family, I, the youngest among them, held a deep longing, yearning for a profound bond with my cherished mother. Remarkably, destiny appeared to sense this desire, and an extraordinary synchronicity enveloped us, setting the stage for a poignant and intimate meal that was about to unfold.

With anticipation in the air, the family gathered eagerly around the dining table in the quaint village of Oheze-Naka, nestled within the Orhionmwon Local Government Area of Edo State. Each member recognized the significance of this occasion, cherishing the opportunity to share a meal with their cherished matriarch. Laughter, tender conversations, and the melodious clinking of utensils created a symphony of familial love, interwoven with the aroma of the food that nourished not only their bodies but also their souls.

In that fleeting moment of unity, the bonds within the family grew stronger, etching memories that would forever resonate within their collective consciousness. They reveled in the simple joys of life—conversations filled with anecdotes, shared dreams, and mutual affection. Little did they know that this seemingly ordinary meal would become an indelible marker, standing as the final chapter of their shared culinary experiences.

However, as the sun ascended toward its zenith, casting elongated shadows in its wake, an unforeseen calamity shattered the tranquility that had enveloped their lives. The distant sound of urgency, carried by the wind, reached the ears of the youngest family member. It was the frantic shouts of their older brother, an unsettling chorus of desperation, urging them to hasten back home.

With a racing heart, the youngest rushed towards the source of the commotion, a cloud of foreboding descending upon them, casting darkness upon their world. Unbeknownst to them, the weight of tragedy hung heavily in the air. A sense of impending sorrow clung to their every step, growing more burdensome with each passing second. Their reality was about to be irreversibly shattered.

Upon arriving at their family abode, their brother’s grief-stricken and disbelieving face conveyed volumes before any words were spoken. The youngest listened, trembling, as the devastating news unfolded. Their beloved mother, Mrs. Ona Osayande, the beacon of warmth and love, had departed from this world, leaving behind an agonizing void that could never be filled.

The realization crashed upon them like an overwhelming tidal wave, stripping away the innocence and joy they had embraced just hours earlier. A profound sense of loss, anguish, and disbelief gripped their heart, leaving them numb, unable to comprehend the cruel twist of fate that had so abruptly snatched their mother from their lives.

Today, as I reflect on the passing of 35 years since you departed this earthly realm, emotions overwhelm me. Though the pain of losing you still lingers, I find solace in the countless beautiful memories we shared together. You were not merely a mother to me; you were my guiding light, my source of strength, and my best friend. Your unwavering love and support nurtured me, shaping the person I have become.

From the earliest moments of my life, you embraced the role of a loving mother with open arms, and your dedication knew no bounds. Your wise words echoed in my mind during times of struggle, providing me with the courage to persevere. Your gentle touch reassured me in moments of doubt, reminding me that I was never alone.

Mum, your selflessness and compassion were unparalleled. You devoted your life to caring for others, even those unrelated to you, showering us all with warmth and affection. Your love extended beyond the boundaries of our immediate family, reaching out to those in need and brightening their lives with your kind heart. You taught me the value of kindness, empathy, and generosity, traits that I strive to embody every day. Your acts of love were not confined to our home; you touched the lives of many, leaving a lasting impression on everyone fortunate enough to know you.

As the years have passed, I have come to appreciate the depth of your character even more. You faced adversity with grace, never allowing it to diminish the inner light that shone so brightly within you. Your resilience in the face of challenges serves as a constant reminder to persevere and never lose hope. Your unwavering faith in the goodness of the world inspired me to see beyond difficulties and embrace life with optimism.

Although I wish I could have shared more of my life with you, I take comfort in knowing that you continue to live on in my heart. Your love and spirit remain a guiding force, illuminating my path and reminding me of the importance of cherishing every moment. The lessons you taught me are etched into my very being, shaping my decisions and actions. Your memory fuels my determination to live a life that honors the values you instilled in me.

Today, I honor you, dear mother, by celebrating your life and the profound impact you had on me and those around you. Your memory will forever be etched in my soul, and I will strive to make you proud every day. As I navigate life’s challenges, I find strength in knowing that you are watching over me, guiding me from above. Your unconditional love continues to be a guiding light, comforting me in moments of darkness and encouraging me to reach for the stars.

Years have passed, and as the youngest child, I carry the weight of that fateful day forever marked by the fleeting happiness of our last meal together, mother. Through the depths of sorrow, I have emerged with a profound understanding of the fragility of life, holding tightly to the memories and lessons imparted by our dear mother. Though physically absent, her spirit will forever guide and inspire us, reminding us to embrace each passing moment.

Thank you, dear mother, for everything you were and still are to me. Though the years may continue to pass, the love we shared will endure for eternity. As I carry your legacy forward, I promise to pass on the love, compassion, and wisdom you bestowed upon me. Your spirit lives on in me, and as I embark on the journey of life, I am forever grateful to have had you as my mother. Until we meet again, may you rest in eternal peace, knowing that you are loved beyond measure.

***Augustine Osayande contributed this article through austinelande@yahoo.com

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How DSS, ONSA, Army rescue remaining Kurmin Wali abducted worshippers in Kaduna

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How DSS, ONSA, Army rescue remaining Kurmin Wali abducted worshippers in Kaduna

By: Zagazola Makama

In the early hours of Thursday, operatives of the Department of State Services (DSS), working closely with the Office of the National Security Adviser (ONSA) and backed by the Nigerian Army, recovered 88 captives from bandits’ hideouts in the Kajuru–Kachia axis. The victims included men, women and two toddlers.

It would be recalled that gunmen attacked three churches in Kurmin Wali on Jan. 18 and abducted about 167 worshippers. While 80 were released on Feb. 1, others remained in captivity until the latest rescue.

One member of the rescue team, who spoke with security analyst Zagazola after the mission, described the operation as “purely intelligence-led.

“There was no shooting, no drama. Everything depended on timing, trust, and pressure. We had to move quietly through insecure villages, meet the handlers, and wait in the bush until they produced the victims,” the operative said.

According to him, the convoy left Kaduna city at about 8 p.m. on Wednesday under DSS escort and proceeded through Kachia to Kajuru LGA, navigating narrow and insecure routes to reach Maro and Cibiya villages.

At 11:00 p.m., the team made contact with local intermediaries the kachallas men who sit between communities and criminal groups. Thirty minutes later, they were led to Cibiya village. There was no time for pleasantries. We told them straight: we are here for the victims,” the operative said. “Nothing else.” he said.

For reasons known only to the abductors, the captives were not brought to the meeting point. Instead, the rescue team was asked to wait. In the bush. For an hour and a half.

“Those 90 minutes felt like a lifetime,” the operative recalled. “You are in hostile terrain, with no guarantee of what comes next.”he said.

“At exactly 12:45 a.m., in a dark thicket outside Cibiya village, the waiting ended. From different corners of the bush, shadows began to move first a woman clutching a child, then a man limping, then another, and another. In silence, 88 kidnapped worshippers emerged from captivity. There were no sirens. No gunfire. No cheering. Just relief.

He added that one of the vehicles developed a flat tyre at Maro village, but the passengers were quickly redistributed among other vehicles, allowing the convoy to continue to Kaduna.

“We arrived safely and handed over the 88 rescued persons to the DSS headquarters at about 3:30 a.m. for documentation and profiling,” he said.

The source commended the support of the Army and Navy personnel from the Nigerian Army School of Artillery (NASA), Kachia, as well as the Garrison Commander, for providing escort and coordination during the operation.

Zagazola report that the Kajuru LGA has, for years, been a pressure point in Kaduna’s security map. Its forested terrain, poor road access and proximity to Kachia and parts of Niger State make it ideal for bandit transit and hostage warehousing.

The rescue marks more than just the end of a traumatic episode for dozens of families. It also offers a revealing window into Nigeria’s evolving counter-kidnapping architecture one increasingly driven by quiet inter-agency coordination rather than loud battlefield theatrics.

What stands out in the Kurmin Wali rescue is not just the outcome, but the method. Rather than a large-scale military assault, the operation relied on fusion intelligence, the blending of DSS human intelligence, ONSA strategic coordination, and Army/Navy tactical support from the Nigerian Army School of Artillery (NASA), Kachia.

This reflects a broader shift in Nigeria’s internal security playbook:DSS handles negotiations, penetration and tracking, ONSA provides strategic oversight and deconfliction, the military ensures area dominance and safe corridors.

Such layered coordination reduces the risk of civilian casualties and prevents kidnappers from scattering hostages during raids, a recurring problem in previous operations.

The initial police denial of the incident also exposed a familiar gap: the lag between ground reality and official acknowledgment, which often complicates response time and public trust.

The Kaduna State Government is yet to issue an official statement on the operation.

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Marwa Charges Nigerian Youths on Skills Acquisition, Warns Against Drug Abuse

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Marwa Charges Nigerian Youths on Skills Acquisition, Warns Against Drug Abuse

By: Michael Mike

The Chairman and Chief Executive Officer of the National Drug Law Enforcement Agency (NDLEA), Brig. Gen. Buba Marwa (retd) has urged Nigerian youths to prioritise skills acquisition and empowerment opportunities as a strategic defence against drug abuse, unemployment and other social vices threatening national stability.

Marwa gave the charge in Abuja on Thursday while speaking as Special Guest of Honour at the launch of a youth empowerment and skills acquisition programme organised by Grassroots Bridge Builders, a non-governmental organisation.

He described the initiative as a critical intervention that supports the Federal Government’s Renewed Hope Agenda, particularly its focus on youth empowerment, job creation, social inclusion and crime prevention. According to him, equipping young Nigerians with practical and employable skills is a sustainable approach to addressing poverty, drug dependency and insecurity.

The NDLEA boss commended Grassroots Bridge Builders for its plan to train and empower 10,000 youths, noting that such efforts go beyond charity to serve as long-term investments in national development. He stressed that empowering young people strengthens their resilience, builds character and reduces their vulnerability to drug abuse and criminal activities.

Marwa emphasised that the fight against drug abuse cannot be left to government alone, calling for stronger collaboration among non-governmental organisations, civil society groups, faith-based institutions, community leaders and the private sector. He encouraged stakeholders to partner with the NDLEA in developing community-driven programmes that provide young people with skills, dignity and a sense of purpose.

Addressing the beneficiaries, Marwa described Nigerian youths as a vital asset to the country’s future rather than a burden to be managed. He urged them to take advantage of empowerment initiatives, reject drug use and invest in their talents to contribute meaningfully to national growth.

He reaffirmed NDLEA’s commitment to supporting credible, non-partisan initiatives that promote youth development, skills acquisition and drug-free communities, describing youth empowerment as the most sustainable pathway to securing Nigeria’s future.

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NSCDC Boss Charges Personnel on Professionalism, Integrityin VIP Protection

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NSCDC Boss Charges Personnel on Professionalism, Integrityin VIP Protection

By: Michael Mike

​The Commandant General (CG) of the Nigeria Security and Civil Defence Corps (NSCDC), Prof. Ahmed Audi has issued a stern mandate to officers to uphold the highest standards of professionalism, integrity, and commitment in the protection of Very Important Persons (VIPs).

The CG gave this charge during his keynote address at a three-day VIP leadership and management workshop held at the NSCDC National Headquarters in Abuja on Wednesday.

The intensive training brought together state commandants, VIP commanders, and armorers from across the country.

​Audi emphasized that the mandate for VIP protection as conferred by President Bola Tinubu is a sacred trust that must not be compromised. He warned that his administration maintains a zero tolerance policy for any form of misconduct.

He said: “This administration will sanction any personnel found sabotaging the Corps’ efforts in implementing the VIP mandate,” adding that: “This responsibility must be carried out to the admiration of the government and Nigerians to justify the confidence reposed in us.”

The workshop, organized under the Directorate of Training and Manpower Development, serves as a strategic intervention to sharpen the tactical and administrative skills of the Corps’ leadership.

Acting Deputy Commandant General Muktar Lawal, explained that the curriculum focuses on: strengthening leadership capacity and management skills.

Improving interdepartmental coordination.

Reinforcing professionalism in armory management and decision-making.

​The CG underscored the importance of excellence by commending the VIP National Commander, Deputy Commandant of Corps Anyor Donald, for his professionalism and loyalty, urging others to embrace similar qualities.

​The event featured goodwill messages from the Corps’ top brass, including Deputy Commandants General Zakari Ibrahim Ningi, fdc; Nnamdi Nwinyi; Pedro Awili Ideba; and Professor Tyoor Frederick Terhemba, all echoing the need for heightened accountability in the field.

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