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In Loving Memory of My Dear Mother,

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In Loving Memory of My Dear Mother,

By Augustine Osayande

On the serene morning of July 30th, 1988, as the sun cast its gentle rays upon the Earth, a tight-knit family basked in the tranquil serenity. Little did they know, a profound metamorphosis awaited, poised to reshape their existence. Within this affectionate family, I, the youngest among them, held a deep longing, yearning for a profound bond with my cherished mother. Remarkably, destiny appeared to sense this desire, and an extraordinary synchronicity enveloped us, setting the stage for a poignant and intimate meal that was about to unfold.

With anticipation in the air, the family gathered eagerly around the dining table in the quaint village of Oheze-Naka, nestled within the Orhionmwon Local Government Area of Edo State. Each member recognized the significance of this occasion, cherishing the opportunity to share a meal with their cherished matriarch. Laughter, tender conversations, and the melodious clinking of utensils created a symphony of familial love, interwoven with the aroma of the food that nourished not only their bodies but also their souls.

In that fleeting moment of unity, the bonds within the family grew stronger, etching memories that would forever resonate within their collective consciousness. They reveled in the simple joys of life—conversations filled with anecdotes, shared dreams, and mutual affection. Little did they know that this seemingly ordinary meal would become an indelible marker, standing as the final chapter of their shared culinary experiences.

However, as the sun ascended toward its zenith, casting elongated shadows in its wake, an unforeseen calamity shattered the tranquility that had enveloped their lives. The distant sound of urgency, carried by the wind, reached the ears of the youngest family member. It was the frantic shouts of their older brother, an unsettling chorus of desperation, urging them to hasten back home.

With a racing heart, the youngest rushed towards the source of the commotion, a cloud of foreboding descending upon them, casting darkness upon their world. Unbeknownst to them, the weight of tragedy hung heavily in the air. A sense of impending sorrow clung to their every step, growing more burdensome with each passing second. Their reality was about to be irreversibly shattered.

Upon arriving at their family abode, their brother’s grief-stricken and disbelieving face conveyed volumes before any words were spoken. The youngest listened, trembling, as the devastating news unfolded. Their beloved mother, Mrs. Ona Osayande, the beacon of warmth and love, had departed from this world, leaving behind an agonizing void that could never be filled.

The realization crashed upon them like an overwhelming tidal wave, stripping away the innocence and joy they had embraced just hours earlier. A profound sense of loss, anguish, and disbelief gripped their heart, leaving them numb, unable to comprehend the cruel twist of fate that had so abruptly snatched their mother from their lives.

Today, as I reflect on the passing of 35 years since you departed this earthly realm, emotions overwhelm me. Though the pain of losing you still lingers, I find solace in the countless beautiful memories we shared together. You were not merely a mother to me; you were my guiding light, my source of strength, and my best friend. Your unwavering love and support nurtured me, shaping the person I have become.

From the earliest moments of my life, you embraced the role of a loving mother with open arms, and your dedication knew no bounds. Your wise words echoed in my mind during times of struggle, providing me with the courage to persevere. Your gentle touch reassured me in moments of doubt, reminding me that I was never alone.

Mum, your selflessness and compassion were unparalleled. You devoted your life to caring for others, even those unrelated to you, showering us all with warmth and affection. Your love extended beyond the boundaries of our immediate family, reaching out to those in need and brightening their lives with your kind heart. You taught me the value of kindness, empathy, and generosity, traits that I strive to embody every day. Your acts of love were not confined to our home; you touched the lives of many, leaving a lasting impression on everyone fortunate enough to know you.

As the years have passed, I have come to appreciate the depth of your character even more. You faced adversity with grace, never allowing it to diminish the inner light that shone so brightly within you. Your resilience in the face of challenges serves as a constant reminder to persevere and never lose hope. Your unwavering faith in the goodness of the world inspired me to see beyond difficulties and embrace life with optimism.

Although I wish I could have shared more of my life with you, I take comfort in knowing that you continue to live on in my heart. Your love and spirit remain a guiding force, illuminating my path and reminding me of the importance of cherishing every moment. The lessons you taught me are etched into my very being, shaping my decisions and actions. Your memory fuels my determination to live a life that honors the values you instilled in me.

Today, I honor you, dear mother, by celebrating your life and the profound impact you had on me and those around you. Your memory will forever be etched in my soul, and I will strive to make you proud every day. As I navigate life’s challenges, I find strength in knowing that you are watching over me, guiding me from above. Your unconditional love continues to be a guiding light, comforting me in moments of darkness and encouraging me to reach for the stars.

Years have passed, and as the youngest child, I carry the weight of that fateful day forever marked by the fleeting happiness of our last meal together, mother. Through the depths of sorrow, I have emerged with a profound understanding of the fragility of life, holding tightly to the memories and lessons imparted by our dear mother. Though physically absent, her spirit will forever guide and inspire us, reminding us to embrace each passing moment.

Thank you, dear mother, for everything you were and still are to me. Though the years may continue to pass, the love we shared will endure for eternity. As I carry your legacy forward, I promise to pass on the love, compassion, and wisdom you bestowed upon me. Your spirit lives on in me, and as I embark on the journey of life, I am forever grateful to have had you as my mother. Until we meet again, may you rest in eternal peace, knowing that you are loved beyond measure.

***Augustine Osayande contributed this article through austinelande@yahoo.com

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UNIFEMGA Urges Positive Mindset, National Unity as Key to Nigeria’s Growth

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UNIFEMGA Urges Positive Mindset, National Unity as Key to Nigeria’s Growth

By: Michael Mike

Members of the Obafemi Awolowo University Muslim Graduates’ Association (UNIFEMGA) have called on Nigerians to embrace positive thinking, patriotism and collective responsibility as essential ingredients for national transformation and sustainable development.

The association made the call in a communiqué issued at the end of its 2026 Annual National Re-union held at Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-Ife, Osun State, between May 8 and May 10.

The conference, themed “The Potential Within Nigeria: Positive Mindset and Communication for Success,” brought together Muslim professionals, academics, business leaders and alumni from across the country to deliberate on issues affecting national development, education, governance and economic growth.

The communiqué, signed by the National President of the association, Mohamed Buari, and the National Secretary, Sefiu Ikudaisi, stressed that Nigeria possesses abundant human and material resources capable of transforming the country into a global economic and political force if citizens adopt the right mindset and attitudes.

According to the association, negative narratives, disunity and poor value orientation have continued to undermine the country’s enormous potential.

It noted that Islam encourages development, innovation and the pursuit of knowledge capable of improving the quality of life, provided such advancements remain within the ethical boundaries prescribed by the religion.

The conference commenced with a special Jumat service at the OAU Central Mosque of Unity and a courtesy visit to the Vice-Chancellor of the university, Adebayo Simeon Bamire, and other principal officers of the institution.

During the visit, discussions centred on issues of mutual interest, with the university management reportedly commending the association for its contributions to the growth and development of the institution.

A major highlight of the reunion was the presentation of scholarships worth N14.6 million to 140 students of the university as part of the association’s welfare and educational support programme.

UNIFEMGA disclosed that since the introduction of the scholarship initiative in the 2009/2010 academic session, it has disbursed over N103.4 million to 1,148 students of the institution.

The association also launched a N200 million endowment fund targeted at supporting widows and orphans of members under its welfare scheme.

The event featured a networking dinner sponsored by the Chairman of the Board of Trustees of the association, Rafiu Ebiti, focusing on value-driven entrepreneurship and investment opportunities.

The reunion lecture was delivered by the Director-General of the National Orientation Agency, Lanre Issa-Onilu, while the Managing Director and Chief Executive Officer of Matrix Energy Group, Abdulkabir Adisa Aliu, chaired the occasion.

Also in attendance were representatives of the Osun State Government, including Governor Ademola Adeleke, represented by his Senior Special Assistant on Religious Affairs, Bello Adeniyi, as well as the Pro-Chancellor of the university, Adejare Bello.

The association expressed concern over the growing challenges confronting tertiary education in Nigeria, including brain drain, obsolete learning equipment, unstable academic calendars and outdated curricula.

It urged the government to urgently address the problems and transform the current “japa” trend into an opportunity for “brain gain” capable of enhancing national productivity and innovation.

UNIFEMGA further called for stronger collaboration between universities and the private sector to ensure sustainable research, innovation and technological advancement.

On the economy, the association urged governments at all levels to create an enabling business environment through improved electricity supply, infrastructure development and investment in human capital.

It also stressed the need to tackle unemployment, warning that many jobless youths are vulnerable to manipulation by individuals promoting violence and instability.

The association said that a positive national mindset remains the foundation for building a prosperous and united Nigeria, urging citizens to embrace values that promote peace, productivity, discipline and national cohesion.

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NSITF Restoring Hope to Injured Nigerian Workers Through Compensation Scheme — Faleye

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NSITF Restoring Hope to Injured Nigerian Workers Through Compensation Scheme — Faleye

By: Michael Mike

The Nigeria Social Insurance Trust Fund (NSITF) has intensified efforts to restore dignity, confidence and economic relevance to Nigerian workers injured in the line of duty through its Employees’ Compensation Scheme (ECS), with the Managing Director and Chief Executive Officer of the Fund, Oluwaseun Faleye, declaring that no worker should be abandoned after suffering workplace accidents.

Faleye made the declaration in Abuja during the presentation of prosthetic limbs to 10 beneficiaries under the Fund’s rehabilitation and reintegration programme, describing the intervention as a practical demonstration of government’s commitment to social protection and workers’ welfare.

Represented by the General Manager, Claims and Compensation, Mrs. Nkiru Ogunnike, the NSITF boss said the scheme has continued to serve as a lifeline for workers whose lives were disrupted by industrial accidents, occupational diseases and other work-related hazards.

He stressed that the Employees’ Compensation Scheme was not designed merely to pay compensation, but to restore injured workers physically, emotionally and psychologically so they could reintegrate into society with renewed confidence.

According to him, many workplace accidents leave victims permanently altered, with some battling emotional trauma, social stigma and uncertainty about their future livelihoods.

“For many Nigerian workers, a single workplace incident can permanently alter the course of their lives. Through the intervention of the NSITF as administrators of the ECS, affected workers are given a second chance to rebuild their lives and regain independence,” he said.

Faleye cited the case of Daniel Etim, a staff member of the University of Uyo Printing Press, whose arm was amputated after it became trapped in an industrial machine during routine work in May 2024.

He explained that the NSITF not only covered Daniel’s medical expenses under the Employees’ Compensation Scheme but also provided him with a prosthetic arm to aid his rehabilitation and restore his functionality.

“Beyond the payment of medical bills, the Fund extended further rehabilitative support by providing him with a prosthetic arm, reaffirming its commitment not only to compensation but also to restoring dignity, confidence and functionality to injured workers,” he stated.

Faleye also recounted the experience of Festus Okpara, an employee of Tower Aluminium Laos, who lost his hand in a workplace accident in 2015 and endured years of emotional distress and social discomfort.

According to him, the provision of a silicone prosthetic hand by the NSITF has helped Okpara regain confidence and interact freely in public once again.

“Beyond the trauma of the accident itself was the constant public attention, the quizzical looks and the pitying stares that made social interactions difficult. The intervention of the NSITF has helped restore his sense of inclusion and self-worth,” he added.

One of the beneficiaries, Festus Okpara, expressed appreciation to the Fund for what he described as life-changing support.

“I thank NSITF for coming all this way to help. At least with this, I can go out in public and feel free. NSITF has reduced the level of trauma,” he said.

The latest intervention is part of the ongoing rehabilitation and reintegration programme of the NSITF, under which 78 beneficiaries have recently been fitted with artificial limbs.

The Employees’ Compensation Scheme was established under the Employees’ Compensation Act of 2010 to provide compensation for workers who suffer injuries, disabilities, diseases or death arising from workplace activities.

The scheme, funded through employer contributions, was introduced to replace the defunct Workmen’s Compensation Act and broaden social protection for Nigerian workers in both the public and private sectors.

Over the years, labour stakeholders have repeatedly raised concerns over poor workplace safety standards in several sectors of the economy, especially manufacturing, construction and heavy industry, where industrial accidents remain prevalent.

Analysts say the increasing intervention of the NSITF in rehabilitation and compensation is gradually strengthening confidence in Nigeria’s social insurance system and drawing attention to the need for stricter enforcement of occupational safety measures across workplaces.

For many beneficiaries, however, the interventions represent something deeper than compensation — a restoration of hope after tragedy.

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Troops eliminates several ISWAP Attackers in failed attempt on Gonori, Recover Weapons in Borno

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Troops eliminates several ISWAP Attackers in failed attempt on Gonori, Recover Weapons in Borno

By: Zagazola Makama

Troops of Operation Hadin Kai (OPHK) have repelled a late-night attack by suspected ISWAP terrorists on the Forward Operating Base of the 120 Task Force Battalion in Gonori, Borno State.

Military authorities said the failed attack occurred between late Saturday, May 9, and the early hours of Sunday, May 10, 2026, under Sector 2 of the North-East counter-insurgency operation.

The terrorists were said to have advanced toward the location from the Mandunari axis at about midnight but were detected early by troops on ambush positions.

Security sources disclosed that troops immediately launched a coordinated spoiling attack, forcing the insurgents into a heavy exchange of fire before air support from the Air Component of Operation Hadin Kai and the Nigerian Army Aviation joined the operation.

The combined air-land assault reportedly inflicted heavy casualties on the fleeing terrorists, while troops successfully defended the camp without any breach or loss of equipment.

Exploitation of the general area after the encounter reportedly revealed blood trails, body parts and several terrorist corpses within the vicinity, indicating significant casualties among the attackers.

Troops also recovered one General Purpose Machine Gun (GPMG), two PKT machine guns, five AK-47 rifles, belts of assorted ammunition and other items abandoned by the insurgents.

Military authorities confirmed that some soldiers sustained injuries during the encounter but were stable and receiving medical attention.

They added that exploitation and pursuit operations were ongoing to track fleeing terrorists and consolidate gains recorded during the operation.

The military said the latest failed attack further demonstrated the operational readiness of troops and the continued pressure being mounted against terrorist groups across the North-East theatre.

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