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In Loving Memory of My Dear Mother,

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In Loving Memory of My Dear Mother,

By Augustine Osayande

On the serene morning of July 30th, 1988, as the sun cast its gentle rays upon the Earth, a tight-knit family basked in the tranquil serenity. Little did they know, a profound metamorphosis awaited, poised to reshape their existence. Within this affectionate family, I, the youngest among them, held a deep longing, yearning for a profound bond with my cherished mother. Remarkably, destiny appeared to sense this desire, and an extraordinary synchronicity enveloped us, setting the stage for a poignant and intimate meal that was about to unfold.

With anticipation in the air, the family gathered eagerly around the dining table in the quaint village of Oheze-Naka, nestled within the Orhionmwon Local Government Area of Edo State. Each member recognized the significance of this occasion, cherishing the opportunity to share a meal with their cherished matriarch. Laughter, tender conversations, and the melodious clinking of utensils created a symphony of familial love, interwoven with the aroma of the food that nourished not only their bodies but also their souls.

In that fleeting moment of unity, the bonds within the family grew stronger, etching memories that would forever resonate within their collective consciousness. They reveled in the simple joys of life—conversations filled with anecdotes, shared dreams, and mutual affection. Little did they know that this seemingly ordinary meal would become an indelible marker, standing as the final chapter of their shared culinary experiences.

However, as the sun ascended toward its zenith, casting elongated shadows in its wake, an unforeseen calamity shattered the tranquility that had enveloped their lives. The distant sound of urgency, carried by the wind, reached the ears of the youngest family member. It was the frantic shouts of their older brother, an unsettling chorus of desperation, urging them to hasten back home.

With a racing heart, the youngest rushed towards the source of the commotion, a cloud of foreboding descending upon them, casting darkness upon their world. Unbeknownst to them, the weight of tragedy hung heavily in the air. A sense of impending sorrow clung to their every step, growing more burdensome with each passing second. Their reality was about to be irreversibly shattered.

Upon arriving at their family abode, their brother’s grief-stricken and disbelieving face conveyed volumes before any words were spoken. The youngest listened, trembling, as the devastating news unfolded. Their beloved mother, Mrs. Ona Osayande, the beacon of warmth and love, had departed from this world, leaving behind an agonizing void that could never be filled.

The realization crashed upon them like an overwhelming tidal wave, stripping away the innocence and joy they had embraced just hours earlier. A profound sense of loss, anguish, and disbelief gripped their heart, leaving them numb, unable to comprehend the cruel twist of fate that had so abruptly snatched their mother from their lives.

Today, as I reflect on the passing of 35 years since you departed this earthly realm, emotions overwhelm me. Though the pain of losing you still lingers, I find solace in the countless beautiful memories we shared together. You were not merely a mother to me; you were my guiding light, my source of strength, and my best friend. Your unwavering love and support nurtured me, shaping the person I have become.

From the earliest moments of my life, you embraced the role of a loving mother with open arms, and your dedication knew no bounds. Your wise words echoed in my mind during times of struggle, providing me with the courage to persevere. Your gentle touch reassured me in moments of doubt, reminding me that I was never alone.

Mum, your selflessness and compassion were unparalleled. You devoted your life to caring for others, even those unrelated to you, showering us all with warmth and affection. Your love extended beyond the boundaries of our immediate family, reaching out to those in need and brightening their lives with your kind heart. You taught me the value of kindness, empathy, and generosity, traits that I strive to embody every day. Your acts of love were not confined to our home; you touched the lives of many, leaving a lasting impression on everyone fortunate enough to know you.

As the years have passed, I have come to appreciate the depth of your character even more. You faced adversity with grace, never allowing it to diminish the inner light that shone so brightly within you. Your resilience in the face of challenges serves as a constant reminder to persevere and never lose hope. Your unwavering faith in the goodness of the world inspired me to see beyond difficulties and embrace life with optimism.

Although I wish I could have shared more of my life with you, I take comfort in knowing that you continue to live on in my heart. Your love and spirit remain a guiding force, illuminating my path and reminding me of the importance of cherishing every moment. The lessons you taught me are etched into my very being, shaping my decisions and actions. Your memory fuels my determination to live a life that honors the values you instilled in me.

Today, I honor you, dear mother, by celebrating your life and the profound impact you had on me and those around you. Your memory will forever be etched in my soul, and I will strive to make you proud every day. As I navigate life’s challenges, I find strength in knowing that you are watching over me, guiding me from above. Your unconditional love continues to be a guiding light, comforting me in moments of darkness and encouraging me to reach for the stars.

Years have passed, and as the youngest child, I carry the weight of that fateful day forever marked by the fleeting happiness of our last meal together, mother. Through the depths of sorrow, I have emerged with a profound understanding of the fragility of life, holding tightly to the memories and lessons imparted by our dear mother. Though physically absent, her spirit will forever guide and inspire us, reminding us to embrace each passing moment.

Thank you, dear mother, for everything you were and still are to me. Though the years may continue to pass, the love we shared will endure for eternity. As I carry your legacy forward, I promise to pass on the love, compassion, and wisdom you bestowed upon me. Your spirit lives on in me, and as I embark on the journey of life, I am forever grateful to have had you as my mother. Until we meet again, may you rest in eternal peace, knowing that you are loved beyond measure.

***Augustine Osayande contributed this article through austinelande@yahoo.com

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54 Borno Students Arrives Isaac Balami University as Government Justifies Investment

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The 54 Borno indigenes who were sponsored by the state government to pursue aerospace and related engineering courses have arrived at Isaac Balami University of Aeronautics and Management in Lagos.

Before they departed from Maiduguri, the Commissioner for Education, Science, Technology, and Innovation, Engr. conducted a farewell ceremony. According to Lawan Abba Wakilbe, the beneficiaries were selected through a competitive process that involved more than 1,200 applicants.

He announced that the Borno State government would provide scholarships worth about $30,000 per year to the 54 beneficiaries, covering tuition, accommodation, transportation, food, and other necessary costs.

Justifying the decision of the state government, Engr. Wakilbe said the choice of Isaac Balami University was strategic, cost-effective, and supportive of local capacity development.

According to him, “the university charges about $30,000 per student annually, covering tuition, accommodation, feeding, training, and stipends. While Aviation schools in the Philippines charge about $34,000 annually without accommodation, and institutions in the there States and the United Kingdom, where fees range between $120,000 and £90,000, excluding living costs,” Wakilbe stated.

The Commissioner for Education noted that the founder of the Institution, Isaac Balami, is an indigene of Borno State whose success in establishing Nigeria’s first private aeronautic university is a source of pride.

“If one of our own has built a specialised aviation university, it is only right that we patronize him first, noting that investing in local institutions keeps resources within the country.

“Isaac Balami, as an example, recalls how a scholarship enabled him to pursue aviation training and eventually establish a private aeronautic university. “We expect you to return as 54 Isaac Balamis,” he charged.

Addressing the students at IBUAM Lagos, the Executive Secretary of the Borno State Scholarship Board, Dr. Bala Isa, urged the beneficiaries to justify the expenditure made by Governor Zulum’s administration through discipline, excellence, and commitment.

“Some people are complaining about the cost of this training and other major projects,” he said. “But when you complete this programme successfully and begin to contribute meaningfully to society, those same critics will appreciate the vision behind it,” Isa remarked.

He reminded them that they were selected to pursue academic and professional excellence, not to engage in misconduct.

“You are here to learn, not to play. Put in your best efforts. This profession demands seriousness, focus, and responsibility. Lives will one day depend on your competence,” he cautioned.

On discipline, the Executive Secretary issued a stern warning, revealing that scholarships have previously been withdrawn from beneficiaries who failed to uphold acceptable standards of conduct.

“We have withdrawn scholarships before due to indiscipline. Even abroad, including in India, a student was sent back home for misconduct. We will not hesitate to take similar action if necessary,” he stated.

Founder of the University, Dr. Isaac Balami, urged the students to take their studies seriously and make the most of what has been described as a rare and highly privileged opportunity.

He reminded the students that the government is making significant financial investments in their training and expects measurable results in return. He cautioned that only those who demonstrate competence, discipline, and commitment will thrive in the programme.

“Aviation is about safety first, safety second, safety third. There is no room for carelessness. There is no participation in the air, underscoring the high level of responsibility required in the profession,” Balami stressed.

Dr. Isaac Balami said qualified professors, instructors, and technical personnel are on the ground to provide guidance and ensure their success.

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We will soon submit the report on the research into kidney disease prevalence in Borno state… Prof Umate

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We will soon submit the report on the research into kidney disease prevalence in Borno state… Prof Umate

The Nigerian Association of Nephrologists (NAN) recently met in Maiduguri for their annual meeting. This exclusive interview with Professor Ibrahim Umate was conducted recently after the opening session where he was honored with a fellowship of the award. Below are extracts of the interview

By: Bodunrin Kayode

Q: Governor Babagana Zulum and his directive for the UMTH to embark on research on prevalence of kidney diseases in Borno

A: We have gone very far in the sense that we have been able to find out the real militating factors responsible for the prevalence of the disease. But there is something we are waiting for to be able to conclude. In all the research we have been doing so far, we have been searching for genetic components igniting the problem.
This genetics research involves taking samples to the molecular laboratory and assessing the genetic components within each sample. There are other genes that may also be responsible like NHY genes which we are looking into how it influences kidney diseases. So we have taken samples to the molecular lab and results will soon be ready. People that have this kinds of genes are more likely to have these kinds of diseases.

Q: Cuts in….So the results will be ready before the Governor leaves office next year?

A: It will be ready within a month or so. We will present the official details to the Governor as soon as we are done with the details.

Q: How about the Challenges you are faced within the realm of the nephrology practice at UMTH?

A: Challenges are always there especially when people come to the hospital with very late presentation of the disease. Its a major and worrying challenge. If only people will come early with their ailments, some of these challenges would become reversible but if they come late there is almost nothing for us to do. Some of them come so late that you have nothing left to do other than to start dialysis. Or even begin to bother about transplant of another kidney to keep them alive. This is all due to the Challenges of late reporting.

Another challenge is about the facilities. Its not as if we don’t have, but you know as the patients population is growing, the machines are over stretched. For now, we have about 20 functional machines and we have to do two to three sessions on some of the machines on a daily bases depending on the number of patients waiting in the queue. Sometimes we have 30, 40 or even more patients waiting in a day for the same service. So sometimes we finish the first session and embark on the second session and these kinds of daily routines affects the machines badly. So ideally, after using the machines that day we can’t use again till the next day. Another challenge is that many people can’t afford the funds for the dialysis.
Again our daily challenge is not only around dialysis alone. There are other aspects of treatment which are far more expensive than dialysis. Example if you are to maintain the red blood vessels of a patient to avoid anemia, electro-positive stimulating agents are very important but its quite expensive. And it is expected that the patients should take it daily while just a vile of it is about 18,000. So if a patient is taking it just twice a week, he must have about 36,000 naira to take it.

Q: The CMD once hinted in a news conference about a foundation to help kidney patients, is it functional now?

A: Yes we have the Kashim Shettima foundation that is helping out with anyone that has transplant issues. As it stands today, anyone that does a transplant will not buy drugs again as long as the operation was done in Maiduguri. And this is courtesy of the Kashim Shettima foundation which will enable them to access the drugs and consumables.

Q: You seem to be having a good time with consumables Prof. What is the reality in the kidney centre?

A: Indeed, government is trying its best on that. We are getting them at subsidized rates. Instead of patients paying over 50,000 naira, they pay just 12,000 for a session of dialysis. So it is about 80% subsidized. That is a good deal to me.

We will soon submit the report on the research into kidney disease prevalence in Borno state… Prof Umate

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Nigerian Embassy in Kuwait Issues Safety Advisory to Citizens Amid Regional Tensions

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Nigerian Embassy in Kuwait Issues Safety Advisory to Citizens Amid Regional Tensions

By: Michael Mike

The Embassy of the Federal Republic of Nigeria in the State of Kuwait has urged Nigerian nationals in Kuwait and Bahrain to remain calm, vigilant, and compliant with host government ldirectives in light of prevailing regional developments.

In a circular dated March 1, 2026, and referenced NKT/GA/C/004/Vol. I, the Embassy — which holds concurrent accreditation to the Kingdom of Bahrain — advised citizens to strictly observe safety guidelines and official advisories issued by authorities in both countries.

The mission encouraged Nigerians to stay informed by monitoring credible local news outlets and official government announcements in Kuwait and Bahrain. It assured the community that it is closely tracking the situation and maintaining communication with leaders of Nigerian groups and associations in both countries.

To enhance real-time communication, the Embassy announced the creation of a dedicated mobile and WhatsApp line to ensure active engagement with nationals.

For further inquiries or assistance, Nigerians were advised to contact the Embassy via email at nigeriakuwait@yahoo.com or through the designated telephone and WhatsApp numbers provided by the mission.

The Embassy reaffirmed its commitment to the safety and welfare of all Nigerian citizens in its jurisdiction and pledged to continue providing timely updates as the situation evolves.

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