DIVORCE: IF TWO CAN NO LONGER LIVE TOGETHER   

DIVORCE: IF TWO CAN NO LONGER LIVE TOGETHER   

By: Balami Lazarus     

I know this piece of write- up for some people will not be comfortable for them at all. But as an independent free Writer/ Columnist I do have the space to write both horizontally and vertically. And for this writing I have no regret and owe no one an apology.     Women are special creatures and a blessing to all potent males. Thereby both need sexual pleasure and procreation.     

For a man and woman to live together as husband and wife they must be properly joined together in marriage according to the customs and tradition of their people. And this union, no doubt, comes with so many blessings and benefits. And also is the beginning of a real long journey that will take the grace of God for two to reach the end.     

Marriage is then a reality show but not for the screen. But for only both parents and close relations to watch as it unfolds itself before them.    This institution is as old as history so many were in it and yet many are in tears. Some have graduated, some are still in it till death do you part for the Christians only.

In marriage you are naturally given a blank certificate to class and grade yourself accordingly.     Marriage is full of challenges because for two people to stay and live together under the same roof, sleeping together and having sexual bonds is definitely an invitation to ‘trouble’. And if not properly managed it will turn out to be Invitation For The Expression Of Divorce ( IED).     

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Why are some people (man or wife) afraid of divorce? While they are truly dying instalmentally in the park of marriage, and living in the clan is no longer feasible and tenable. What are you still doing there? Why stay in a place where your life is cliff- hanging? Why in a union where spiritually it has failed? Relationship is already Mar and Rage.     Are you aware that most Christian marriages are full of crisis and some have failed spiritually? What you see in some of them is the pretext of the physicality of husband or wife. So why not part ways.     

Most wives in Christian marriages are rude, stubborn and domineering and have grown third horns no longer submissive seeing them equal to their husbands. But why? I think many of them these days are refusing to differentiate between Rights and Privileges. And that is why there is an increase in the numbers of divorce within the Christendom community. The good thing in this and the lesson to be learned as more of the divorce the better for it. It will begin to tame the Christian wives and a signal to young girls and intending young ladies to be mindful and do the needful.     

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DIVORCE: IF TWO CAN NO LONGER LIVE TOGETHER