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PARENTS : Love , Protection and Social Disorder

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PARENTS : Love , Protection and Social Disorder

By: Balami Lazarus

Little is known of a small town called Hungerford in the outskirt of London before 1987. What happen was caused by one Michael Ryan , it was the biggest human crime in the history of crimes in England. Ryan went on a killing spree , killing 16 people in about two hours including his parents. Let me keep you in suspense for a while.

Let me here acknowledged parents who had given their children time and space to grow and interact with their peers and contemporaries in a given community guided by discipline and punishment age they are found wanting.

Those of us that were privileged to be brought up by such parents who allowed us to interact and socialized with other classes of children of our age group. This has helped us in no small measure to having good street wise and knowledge, which no home or school will give you. 

What informed this write up was my recent interactions with some parents on how some of these parents bring up their children under the condition of over protection in the name of love and care in a confined family environment. 

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Children brought up in an open home and environment are wiser,  tougher and better exposed with street knowledge. These children are conversant with their immediate environment, street, land Marks , elders and other personalities in the community where they live. On like the children brought up in room temperature and within their compound, these children lack proper understanding of their own community. 

They environmentally bankrupt lacking social interaction and knowledge of such community they live in, in fact, they tend to developed social disorder because of their parental overprotection and strictness in the name of love. That was the clear case of Michael Ryan of Hungerford. Most children of such background are found to be involved in drugs, Yahoo and other social vises. Funny enough looking at these children from the unset you will lease expected that they can be engaged in such crimes and social eel’s.

Findings by social psychologist has it that most of these children grow with social disorder and having the personality of fear, timidity and lack confidence. And grow with such traits in them. They are mostly dependent and fall back to their parents for matters they expected to handle or solve. While on the other divide their contemporary had better understanding on how to go about it. 

Take the case of a true Mother and Father Association of Italy  known as (Mafia) . A Mafia family always allow their children to have enough street knowledge of their community or taken to a hard far away uncle from his comfort zone these are applicable to all those that came from the clan in respect of class. All is an attempt to exposed such a child to having adequate street knowledge which further his understanding of his locality making him feel the reality of life challenges. 

In the old wild wild west a smart cowboy knows when to enter a town and when to leave, such cowboy must have a good gun with a fast draw skills, fast horse all these are knowledge taught to cowboys in his community and on the street. 

* Balami, Publisher/ Columnist

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Hausa-Fulani is a political coinage created for Arewa numerical strength

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Hausa-Fulani is a political coinage created for Arewa numerical strength

By: Balami Lazarus

For some time I have been reflecting on Hausa-Fulani as a self-created ethnic body that has no place in the history of Nigerian ethnic composition. Because there has never been any ethnic group known as Hausa-Fulani combined. Fulanis are Fulanis, while Hausas are purely Hausas who are of the Maguzawa extraction, the true and original Hausa race.

Without any doubt, the Fulanis are an independent ethnic group with distinct and unique culture and traditions, likewise the Hausas as tribes.

When and how did the phrase “Hausa-Fulani” come into being? The concept is a systematic political merger coined purely for Arewa numerical strength. Besides, it has never been used for economic development and progress in the north, where it is domiciled.

The term has long been in use within the north as a magnet to pull the northern Talakawa-Hausa-Fulani masses together as one and the same ethnic group, just like the political ‘Mu Yar Arewa’ for the benefits of the ruling elites.

I would like to bring to your attention whether or not the concept is a deceptive ethnic coinage limited to and circulating within and around the Hausa land.

A prominent mass communication expert and journalist, Prof. Ahmad Gausu (1993), once said that no true-blooded Fulani man will ever carelessly or jokingly claim and address himself as a Hausa-Fulani man. In his words, “Fulanis are Fulanis, Hausas are Hausas.” These are entirely distinct ethnic groups with different cultures and traditions. The phrase was coined to attract an ethnic and political majority rather than social unity.”

The Hausas have no common heritage with the Fulanis, who speak Fulfulde.

For this reason, there has never been any cultural identity/source material in language, traditions, and/or history to suggest that. Pursuant to this, one can find a wide gap that separates and distinguishes them as different tribes.

The claimants of this deceptive political ethnic phrase are beginning to vehemently reject the usage and are going back to identifying with their original ethnic background. Unlike the Pabir people, who are offshoots of the Bura ethnic nation with no ethnic background, who had humbled themselves in Bura culture and traditions, which gave birth to what is known today as the Bura-Pabir ethnic identity.

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IBUAM: For Aeronautics and Aviation Management

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IBUAM: For Aeronautics and Aviation Management

By: Balami Lazarus

The comments/reactions of some readers to my recent work on Isaac Balami University of Aeronautics and Management (IBUAM) Lagos were a mixed grill. And this made me respond and inform them through this work.

And that the title alone will tell them and other readers that the institution is of university standard allowed by law through the university regulatory body, the National Universities Commission (NUC), to run courses accredited like any other duly approved university academic program.

From the name itself, and if you mentally removed Isaac Balami, what you are left with is University of Aeronautics and Management. IBUAM is Africa’s first private aeronautics university, where young people are intellectually trained in the science of aeronautics engineering, aviation management, and operations to contribute their quota to nation building through the aviation industry, which is more privately driven.

Nigerian School of Aviation Technology Zaria (NSAT) is the only institution in Nigeria established and licensed to train future pilots on the techniques of practical flying. And the school does not have the status of a university, unlike IBUAM.

I have not, and I am yet to set my eyes on any course that has to do with flying offered at IBUAM Lagos. However, my findings revealed that “it does provide pilot training… equipping students with practical skills in aircraft maintenance, repairs, and operations.”

The Nigerian aviation sector is a money-minting industry that has dual economic benefits—air and land; revenues are generated through both of these means.

The establishment of IBUAM came at the right time, for it will produce graduates trained in aeronautics engineering, aviation management, and operations who shall offer their services for both the private and public sectors as aviation experts and administrators.

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My Binocular: Federal Orthopedic Hospital Azare achieves first interlocking intramedullary femoral nailing operation

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My Binocular: Federal Orthopedic Hospital Azare achieves first interlocking intramedullary femoral nailing operation

By: Bodunrin Kayode

I got to know Dr Ali Ramat when I was directed to see him by the CMD of the University of Maiduguri Teaching Hospital (UMTH) Professor Ahmed Ahidjo a couple of years ago. He was to analyze the results from a Magnetic Resonance Imaging (MRI) I had undergone for the bottom side of my cerebrospinal region and treat me of the pains. I suddenly developed some serious pains towards the bottom of my back due obviously to a car crash I was involved in about 25 years ago in Niger state where I served as the correspondent of the guardian newspaper. I was treated then in the National Hospital Abuja and told to go home and rest instead of an immediate operation to fix back some of the shifted ribs as the X-ray depicted. 25 years later, possibly due to advancing age, the intervertebral stops down there as I want to address them in layman’s language are screaming pains due to stress whenever I indulge in long distance driving. Dr Ramat looked at the results I brought from Prof Zainab a consultant radiologist who ran the MRI and gave me some drugs which I took and the pain left. In my usual way I never left his office without saying thank you and prying into his young background. That was when he told me about his specialist training in Turkey on spinal matters. I was excited at the zeal of such a young professional who seemed to be moving at a speed far higher than his contemporaries in the same UMTH where he trained.

The University of Maiduguri Teaching Hospital (UMTH) is truly a citadel for the hatching of great minds dominating the medical sector in Nigeria. Within the last decade, it has produced several Chief Medical Directors now managing sister medical institutions in the entire North East region of the country. One of those products of the ” Prof Ahmed Ahidjo mentoring school” is Dr Ali Ramat of the department of orthopedic medicine. Ramat a young enterprising consultant orthopedic and spine surgeon calls Prof Ahidjo his mentor because he was instrumental in the advancement of his career in Turkey where he expanded his orthopedic knowledge by specializing in the critical spinal region. As an orthopedic Doctor, Ramat has treated several bone cases in the UMTH where he became one of the apples of the eye of the CMD Prof Ahidjo such that immediately it was time to set up the National Orthopedic Hospital Azare (NOHA) in Borno State, he was quickly recommended and today he is the first Medical Director of that Hospital. He follows the trail of Professor Chubado Tahir another mentee of the Ahidjo school who is equally managing the National Orthopedic Hospital Jalingo (NOHJ) and many others.

First successful operation in the National Orthopedic Hospital Azare, Borno State

After a memorandum of understanding (MOU) was signed between the federal and state government in May 2025 for the speedy take off of the facility, the newly appointed Medical Director Dr Ali Ramat hit the ground running by assembling his team of 29 doctors some of whom were equally seconded from the UMTH. The State government led by Professor Babagana Zulum had already given out it’s take off facility which is the former general hospital Azare and was very happy about the development. Commissioner of health Prof Baba Mallam Gana was beyond happiness because he is now the special apple of the eyes of Prof Zulum his Principal.

The speed with which the hospital had to take off without any take off grant from its federal benefactors did not affect him yet he started work. He was really in a hurry to stamp his knowledge acquired on the sands of time by ensuring that humanity is served quality dividends in a very short period. And that is what he did on the 6th of January this year which was my birthday. It was a special day in the anals of medicine in North East Nigeria and my special day too. In our chit chat, Ramat announced his first feat in the hospital this way. “Today Tuesday 6th January 2026 the National Orthopaedic Hospital Azare Hawul Borno State successfully conducted its first Orthopaedic Surgery of (interlocking intramedullary femoral nailing). The team was led by the Medical Director Dr. Ali Mohammed Ramat a Consultant Orthopaedic Surgeon. The patient is recuperating ” he said to me in a short, sweet and what I can describe as journalistic way. I am happy for him because he is a very young consultant who still has many years ahead of him before he begins to get tired or depreciate due to the law of diminishing returns which is quite natural with our common humanity. With this feat Ramat has started to write his name in gold in the country. He is also getting ready to move in a meteoric speed to serve humanity in a big way beyond northern Nigeria. Meanwhile as he and his team of about 29 doctors and 16 nurses wait for the usual red tape to be concluded in Abuja for more equipment to be supplied to the facility, Ramat has opened the hospital to everyone who is sick to approach them for treatment. This is a good beginning for orthopedic medication in Borno and Nigeria in general. Congratulations my friend Dr Ramat.

My Binocular: Federal Orthopedic Hospital Azare achieves first interlocking intramedullary femoral nailing operation

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